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Tuesday, November 17, 2009

How to Thank a Soldier - On Purpose

Blog - 2009-11-17 - Joker One

The last speaker at a two day conference is always in the toughest of spots.  Attendees are typically suffering from information overload, starting to refocus on the return to whatever responsibilities they left behind, thinking about a connection they still need to make, or transportation to the airport.  Engaging them one last time is always a challenge. In many years of attending and hosting conferences, I have never seen a speaker meet that challenge with more success than Donovan Campbell, manager at PepsiCo, Marine Captain, and author of the best selling book Joker One.

No one who was lucky enough to be in the room for the closing  session at #PRBPC last week in Dallas will ever forget the last thirty minutes of the conference. Donovan truly had us at hello, or in his case "thank you".  This is a man who is about one thing - giving back. Deployed to Iraq in 2004, his tour with his platoon Joker One changed his life forever.  His recount of his days in Ramadi was eye-opening and haunting.  The pictures that he shared of his men - risking their lives daily, performing back-breaking work to build infrastructure, trying to find ways to engage and befriend the Iraqi civilians - were quickly imprinted on our minds and in our hearts.  These soldiers, most in their late teens and early twenties and with little formal education beyond high school, patrolled the streets of Ramadi day after day and reenlisted time after time because they couldn't bear the thought of leaving their "brothers" behind.  That selflessness is something most of us could learn a thing from.

Then and now, so few of us knew or thought about their work as we stressed and worried about the little problems that littered our own.  Things like traffic, meetings, and email overload suddenly seem trivial in comparison.  In recounting his story, Donovan gave us the gift of the precious present in a way only those who have faced death and borne the responsibility for protecting other lives can do.  He made it crystal clear - that what we believe to be our toughest challenges pale in contrast to the ultimate challenge - risking your life for another, for values that your cherish and hold dear.  Here is the lesson life taught him  - don't waste a single day and be grateful for the opportunity to live, to lead, to develop, and to contribute when and where we can, big or small.

He closed by answering the question that he is so frequently asked, "How do I thank a soldier?"  Evidently, because of the Veterans Day remembrances last week, along with the tragedy at Ft. Hood, he has been asked the question frequently.  His response was simple - give back, help someone who needs it, be grateful for what you have, demonstrate your commitment to serving our country and our citizens every day - even in small ways.  It is obvious that he leads in his work at PepsiCo the same way he led his men in Iraq, with intellect, heart, commitment, and genuine concern for the success and well being of his subordinates.  Look up "servant leader" in the dictionary - there is a picture of Donovan Campbell.  I sat in between two CEO's, both veterans, both servant leaders in their own right - both in tears.  He touched us all in a way we will never forget.  Today, tomorrow, next week during Thanksgiving, let's say thank you to Donovan and those he wants so much for us to honor and remember - and let's do it on purpose.

Joni Thomas Doolin | Post a Comment | Email Article


1 comment(s) for “How to Thank a Soldier - On Purpose”

  • Nate St. Pierre Says:
    Donovan's story was a touching reminder of the sacrifice and service that our soldiers - our country's servants - go through every day. It was enlightening to see it through his eyes as a leader of these men, where his job is to serve the men who serve the country. Leadership of that kind - GOOD leadership of that kind - is incredibly hard to find, and Donovan was a shining example of what a good man is capable of.

    I loved that he called us all to action at the end of his talk, letting us know that it is well within our power to live our lives and conduct our business in a way that upholds the moral code to treat others better than we treat ourselves . . . to care, to give, to love.

    Thank you, Donovan. And thank you, Joni.